Official Site of Pornstar and Dancer Jaycee Luv

As long as i been in the game, im noticing certain shit just should not be happening anymore with me…

Back in the day when i worked at scores in chicago i made a shit ton of money.. 2 the point it was guaranteed money, 2 da point in a 4 day work wk the first 2 days may b shitty but dammit the last 1-2 days i made well over 2 stacks now that im back at a home club/ polekatz here in chicago i expect nothing less and going back to basics in the way i made my money. By being different and knew every aspect of my craft.. including the way i danced, the way i acted ect.

I remember being at a club in vegas on the “vip line” standing next to this girl when a floor host tells her a guy wants a lapdance.. her reply was simple yet firm… I don’t do lapdances. Lapdances paid for my house and my car in full Im done with those. its all or nothing for me baby when i get a room i get a room if not its just that.. all or nothing..

Back then people thought she was stuck up or 2 good to do a lapdance.. but i got it and still get it.. eventually you look to and want more when it comes to working.. you learn what exactly it means when they say work smarter not harder… overall you just come to expect more of yourself and what you get in return. In the end you set yourself ahead of the basic ones that only go for the simple stuff..

Since I cannot speak on every single relationship type I’m only going to speak on the type thats relevant to my life and the observations I’ve noticed when it has come up in conversations….

Background:

If you didn’t know I am married (legally) have been for going on 7 yrs. We have had a open relationship for most of those years. In which when i was traveling it was ok for him to have fun and do him or even if i wasn’t traveling it was whatever (as long as he was smart and safe about it). Me on the other hand I dont get with other guys im more of a female only type of person. We dont get around or have sex with people like that so we both thought since i was bi, we would just look for 1 girl that liked the us and we formed a relationship with her rather than have random 3sums.

Bit of Education

Click the links to do more further research from wiki for yourself

Some are probably already looking like ain’t that illegal?! but let me inform you on some words that apply to me and the ones you are thinking of:

Polygamy- Is when a man or woman is married and while married they go out and marry some1 else at the same time having multiple marriages or as wiki puts it, having multiple marriages w people to mate with… this is illegal in most states ect…

Polyamory- As wiki puts it poly is Greek for many (or multiple) and amor is Latin for love. In this relationship people have in essence many loves as in a huge open relationship where there isn’t anything monogamous but every1 involved may have multiple lovers. Originally we thought we wanted a polyamorous relationship but in the beginning was very misinformed as far as wording goes.

Polyfidelity- What we wanted and still looking for is this type of relationship. where we would have only 1 girl to have a relationship with. we do not get around like that and having only 1 person with us in a relationship means we would all share the same interests and goals, maybe have the same jobs, but most importantly things like getting tested wouldn’t be taboo or a sticky subject because we are all in 1 relationship.

Observations:

I have noticed that its more easier said than done especially within the black community.

People come over all the time to get tattoos and inside the studio there are photos of my travels with features i’ve met ect along with my pic so it always brings up questions that ends up speaking on the type of relationship we have. Back when we had one, 99% of the guys that heard my husband had a wife and a girlfriend…there were alot of whispering then alot of wow i envy you man! especially once its clarified that he has a wife and a girlfriend that knows about each other and also fucks each other lol. On the other hand, 99% of the girls were of course whispering but then several times had to re-clarify she knows about her? they have sex together? your wife doesn’t care that you have sex with the girlfriend with out her?? after all the yes answers, theres still silence then the typical black girl response oh hell no! I just can’t share fuck that! your wife better than me! I wish my man would! I wish he would utter the question of that shit! I can’t do it! its always funny when both the guy and his girlfriend is there and she give him the don’t even think about it look.

Don’t really have info on latin community because haven’t been around that many to have this conversation..lol

For white people and females that ive had this convo with they have either

A: Been in this type of relationship

B: Currently In this type of relationship

C: Mite have had a bad experience but willing to find another 1

D: Interested but if equipped with the right knowledge, willing to try it

Because of these things, I kinda see why black men and some women travel outside their race for relationships and other things besides sex simply because…they are more open minded. It has nothing to do with being submissive, bowing down, lowering your standards, ect. White people seem to be more into themselves to be willing to try new things  than black people are. While Im not saying there is something wrong with that, black people have a tendency to judge and put down others and unwilling to try new things out of fear. Its not solely about sex its simple things like trying new foods like sushi, or something out the comfort zone. we have a tendency to shut things down with out even trying it. hell some black people will no longer like you because of your relationships, or because you are into a certain thing that they are not and instead of being educated and expanding their mind, they would rather settle in fear and judge you for doing you.

In relationships Im no expert however sometimes i dont think black men or women ask for alot.

Black men go to white women because again their more open minded.

-A black man will in some case go to a white chick for things like anal or the way they can possibly suck dick because:

A: some black chicks or other races either don’t give head never tried it and don’t want to try it especially when it comes to deep throating the dick (without the hand forcing the head down of course), you may have the select few that tried it several times but said its not for them and for that you can’t knock em at least they tried. The same goes for those that dnt swallow or allow their guy to cum on them in various places on their body.

B: Black chicks and other races may have never did anal, dont want to try it, or do the research so that it doesn’t hurt, or again have tried it but its not for them and again at least they tried it..

Black chicks go to white men for the same reasons they are more open minded

-White men give good head. you have alot of black guys and other races that do not give a chick head under any circumstances. Some of the times its out of fear, others simply because they probably dont know what they are doing but their pride won’t let them take advice on how to do it from their chick.

-white men listen. not saying other people dont lol when sexing a white guy or girl, you can tell them how to please you and they will do it. and they will voice to you how to please them as well. Esp with black guys, well some you can’t tell them nothing! telling a black guy how to please you is ludacris at times. you have to watch your words, find out how to tell them the way to lick the pussy right instead of just telling them. you try to tell them how to fuck differently or better some will stop what they are doing and the sex is over! So most chick lay there don’t get their nut for the sake of hurting their pride and will excuse themselves 2 the bathroom for a rub out session w the vibrator..

Now I’m full aware that I am still black. This is not me putting down black people or saying that i hate black people.. This is just my opinion my husband is black and we communicate and function differently in our relationship than most. Im sure my readers are going to probably disagree, some even agree who knows but feel free to let me know your opinion on this issue on my facebook fan page in the discussion area

Apparently u have to sign into facebook to see my fan page so if you dont have a facebook acct you can also email me jaycee@jayceeluv.com your thoughts on the matter and ill post it

Ive been noticing some things in the various clubs that really annoy me… not only annoy me but at some points for like 2 secs make me question the way i dance or the way i do my job until i look down and notice all the 20s,50s ect while the people in question are holdin 1s, 20s, you get the picture… what im talking about is this.. 

One the floor- the conversation mainly consists of chick licking the guys ear,neck, ect on the prospect of getting a dance.. aka free. my issue i dont like nor have i ever been the one to just go randomly kissing on some guy i dont know dnt even like ( even speaking if the guys is fine as hell) but it happens, i just do me and keep it moving..

Dance area- you’re giving a dance and to the left or right the girl got her mouth on the guys crouch doing the lil vibrator thing..its like what the hell? for what 20-30 bucks? its quite nasty to me esp if the guy got a naked dance b4 and the chick mite have have a skin contact std your mouth on his crouch now is…you do the math..

I mean do boundaries no longer exist? is it really that hard to just say no? Ive ended dances because some1 tried to finger me like asked for my money and kept it moving. the guys respect me and say sorry and continue on with more dances where others are well i would get some more dances but since i can’t finger you or whatever we’re done…and im totally ok and will be like well you owe me x amt… and have a good 1.

I don’t get it its annoying, but maybe its just me being fancy lol

We’re continuing the discussion on my facebook fan page

https://www.facebook.com/DaRealJayceeLuv

Last night my name jaycee was taken so my name is now reese at polekatz!

When coming to see me at PoleKatz or anywhere else the following things about me:

• I do not get a paycheck.

  • While i love to meet my friends,fans and supporters I am at work. I only get paid from dances, vip rooms, and tips. Please understand that I have to move around and make money if you are only there to drink or chat with me. Also please don’t think that asking to tip me 5 bucks to sit with you for 30mins to an hour is ok.. please be respectful

• I don’t want to spend money here let me take you to lunch, shopping ect

  • While i am flattered, I do not meet people from work outside of the club. for my comfort and saftey  please lets keep our fun time at the club. If you really want to buy me something there are folks at the club that sale clothes, and jewelry I can wear for you. when Im not at work its my time for me my close friends and family.

• You gotta dance for my party.

  • Again for my comfort and saftey I do not do outside parties at all… the club has tables and a vip area that can accomodate you and your party for me to entertain.

• when i met (insert pornstar name here) after the club she took me here we did this ect…

• Again i am not your sterotypical stripper/pornstar ect. what someone else does is their business. You telling me what they did for you in expectation that i will do the same so dont try it. I could care less because im not them..

 

These are some things to keep in mind when coming to see me so no one is in a ackward position or under any false pretenses. Just come in,enjoy and lets play!